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| Online Dating 10: A Step-by-Step Tutorial |
| Saturday, April 14, 2007 |
1.Choosing the Right Online Dating Site With over 1,000 online dating sites in cyberspace, choosing the right site for you can be a daunting task. The first step is to consider whether you want a mainstream site or a specialized site. Mainstream sites, like Yahoo Personals !(pictured here) and Match.com, offer the greatest number of members. You could also go for a specialized site that focuses on a particular religion (i.e., Jewish), Culture (i.e., Asian), or political party (i.e., Democrats). These sites will have less members but you'll have something in common with everyone you meet online. 2.Reading advice, articles, and tips before joining
 Most online dating sites offer a plethora of tips, articles, advice, and suggestions to maximize your online dating experience. Check the menu options at the bottom or side of the dating site homepage for a section that says "dating articles" or "advice and tips". Here you'll find articles from various dating coaches and experts on suc h topics as how to write a great profile, the best ways to contact prospects, where to go on your first date, and what it really takes to score a second date and beyond. If you're really new to online dating, it wouldn't hurt to learn a little about the process before jumping in. 3.Taking advantage of the quick search feature 
Before investing signficant time and money in an online dating site, be sure to take advantage of their quick search feature if available. Often right on the homepage, the quick search enables you to quickly click on an age range, geographical location, and gender to instantly see prospects who match your search criteria. While you often can't contact these prospects without joining the site, it will give you a great idea of the potential people you could meet. If right aw ay you see five interesting profiles, this is a great indication you should consider joining this site. 4.Filling out your basic profile informatio n 
Most dating sites will allow you to fill out a free profile and it begins with requesting basic information about you. These are typically multiple choice questions about your height, body type, eye color, hair color, etc. A word of caution... be honest when you fill out this information. It's always tempting to choose what you think other people would be attracted to, but sooner or later this strategy will backfire. Nobody likes showing up for a First date to find out their date looks nothing like their profile described. 5.Telling a little more about yourself
Basic personality traits like eye and hair color are a great start but your profile also needs some color, courtesy of deeper and more creative questions. Depending on the site you may be asked for information about your astrological sign, favorite hobbies, Political Stance, smoking habits, and even whether or not you're the life of the party. The idea here is to provide deeper insights into who you are to hop efully attract the right prospects for your personality. 6.Describing what you're looking for in a mate
After entering a bunch of information about yourself the tables will turn and you can now describe what you're looking for in a partner. Again, honesty is key here as you want to attract the right person. The same way you described your traits you'll now get to answer similar questions about your potential prospects. Depending on the site you join, some sites use this information to make automatic matches for you. They'll actually send compatible matches right to your email inbox, making the whole matching process that much easier. 7.Choosing your screen name and the essay
After all your information is entered, as well as that of the folks you hope to meet, it's now time to choose a screen name and write a personal paragraph. The screen name is what people will see next to your photo when they peruse the site. The screen name is a window into your personality so choose it wisely. There's a big difference between Marriage Minded Mike and causual dater mike. Most sites will also have 1-2 essay questions where you can furthe r describe yourself and use this opportunity to cover anything the site's questions failed to elicit. 8.Scanning in your online dating photos
Most dating sites will tell you that 80-90% of the decision to contact someone online is based on the photos. That means you've got to choose your photos wisely to have the best chances of meeting someone new. First, keep in mind that if you choose not to post any photos you'll reduce your response rate by 50-75%. Also, if the site allows multiple photos, you'll want to include one head shot, one full body shot, and one photo showing you enjoying one of your favorite activites. 9.Making first contact with a dating prospect
Most dating sites offer two fundamental ways to get in touch with a potential prospect. You can send an instant message, sometimes called a wink or flirt. Or you can send a traditional email. The instant message is of course quicker but much less personal and therefore less likely to earn a response back. If you go the email route remember to personalize your message. Sending the same email to a bunch of prospects rarely nets responses. Comment on something from their profile or write about similar interests to show you've taken the time to read and digest your prospect's profile. 10.Setting up a first date
After 2-3 email exchanges the conversation typically escalates to a live phone call. This is a chance for both of you to see if the email chemistry translates well into live conversation. There's no need to hold tons of phone calls, one or two should be enough to see if you both want to meet in person. Assuming the first date is a go, be sure to keep in mind online dating safety when you agree to meet up. Pick a public place, like the local coffee shop, and make sure a friend or family member knows where you are in case anything happens. If all goes well on date #1 it's time to start thinking about date #2. Go for a more interactive date, something you can have fun with together and start having shared experiences. From there you're on your own to hopefully build a meaningful and healthy relationship .
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